Thursday, August 6, 2026

What's in your grocery bag?

 When shopping for groceries, do you ever glance at the expiration date of produce or the label on the food?



If yes, then kudos to your presence of mind, since lately I have observed people doing two things while shopping. They are mostly on a call, or listening to a podcast or music. When asked, they find it a boring chore, but since they have to do it to be able to cook at home, they ought to go grocery shopping.
There are a handful of people who still prefer groceries to be delivered to their doorstep since shopping in person is a big waste of time when they can either hit the gym or do something productive with that one hour.
For those who choose delivery, being a mindful shopper is just as important. Even when ordering online, you can take a few extra minutes to check product descriptions, look for nutrition information, and opt for fresh produce. Reading labels and selecting items that are in season or less processed can help you make healthier choices, even if you are not in the store.
Stickers are found on all the food items that we purchase, but little do we notice the numbers on them. These numbers are called price look-up (PLU) numbers, and they say a lot about our health and the history of the produce, such as where it was grown, how it was developed, and under what circumstances it was cultivated. The PLU number is significant and is mandatory for all produce.
The number of digits in the PLU number matters. An easy way to remember: Four digits means conventionally grown (with pesticides), five digits starting with 8 means genetically modified (GMO), and five digits starting with 9 means organic. 
So, think 4 = conventional, 8 = GMO, 9 = organic.

If it is a four-digit sticker, then that produce was grown with the help of pesticides. Example: Bananas having a code of 4011
If the sticker is a five-digit sticker and the number starts with an 8, then that produce has been genetically modified. Example: Banana having a code of 84011
If the PLU number has five digits and the number starts with 9, then that food has been grown organically. Example: Banana having a code of 94011
Humans are advised to eat at least 3-4 servings of fruit and vegetables per day. We should lower our pesticide intake by eating the least contaminated produce.
Some of the produce that is highly contaminated and should be eaten organically includes strawberries, spinach, apples, nectarines, grapes, peaches, cherries, pears, tomatoes, celery, and potatoes. These items tend to have higher levels of pesticide residues, so it is best to prioritize buying them organic whenever possible. A complete list is provided in the table below.
Celery
Spinach
Blueberries
Sweet Bell Peppers
Lettuce
Peaches
Cucumbers
Strawberries
Green beans
Some produce items do not need to be organic because they tend to have low pesticide residues. Examples of these low-risk items include avocados, onions, sweet corn, pineapples, papayas, asparagus, mangoes, eggplants, and cantaloupe.
Choosing these non-organic options can help you shop smartly if organic options are unavailable or too expensive. The list is given below in a table format.
Sweet Corn
Asparagus
Mushrooms
Pineapples
Mangoes
Papaya
Avocade
Eggplant
Plums
Cabbage
Kiwi
Winter Squash
Foods are also genetically engineered to be herbicide- or insect-resistant, but experts have found this mutation to alter the nutritional value of many crops. Some of the most common genetically modified foods include corn, soybeans, canola, cottonseed, sugar beets, papaya, zucchini, and summer squash. These foods are widely grown in genetically modified varieties, so it is helpful to know them when making food choices. The list is documented in a table format.
Soybeans
Golden Rice
Corn
Apples
Canola

When shopping for foods, look out for:
  • PLU numbers, which are small stickers found on the food and comply with the above rules.
  • Look for the USDA Organic Seal. This seal certifies that food is produced without the use of antibiotics, synthetic hormones, or genetic engineering.
  • Look for Non-GMO labels. This label certifies that it is not genetically modified (non-GM); however, this does not mean the product is organic.
  • Look for the rBST-free or rbGH-free seal. This certifies that animals are not injected with recombinant bovine growth hormone to boost milk production. However, many brands swear to be rBST-free, but it is always good to be aware of it.


All humans are exposed to genetically modified (GMO) and non-GMO foods. There has been ongoing public debate over the health effects of GMOs. Most scientific research and expert organizations, such as the World Health Organization and the National Academy of Sciences, report that GMOs currently approved for sale are considered safe to eat and have not been shown to pose greater health risks than conventional foods. However, some groups and individuals continue to raise concerns about potential long-term health impacts, possible allergic reactions, and environmental effects. Because research is ongoing and opinions may differ, many people prefer to have the choice to avoid GMOs when possible. 
Recently, North America created a non-profit organization that is raising awareness of genetically modified products and their effects, since they believe that everyone deserves an informed choice about whether or not to consume GMO foods.
The Non-GMO.org Website has information about the various foods subjected to mutations and what choices people can make to avoid consuming them.

Conclusion
A life lived with good health is worth more than being a billionaire. This kind of billionaire is truly rich—and best of all, never has to pay any taxes on their priceless fortune.
Next time you shop for groceries, remember that cooking at home is healthy—but the journey to better health truly begins when you carefully choose your ingredients. Be mindful in the store, as every healthy meal starts in your shopping cart.

Wednesday, July 29, 2026

Music to my ears

 The taste of music differs from person to person based on their likes and dislikes. In this essay, I use music as a metaphor for the news or experiences we receive in life—just as musical preferences vary, the impact of news and experiences is personal to each of us. The genre of music I prefer would not be the same as another person's. So, the music that pleases my ears would be unpleasant for some. 

Eg. a scratch on my car would disturb me, but not my neighbor. 



Suppose we compare good music to the good news that makes us happy. Such as hearing that a friend admires our work, waking up to a sunny forecast, or finding out we did well on an assignment—each of these brings a smile to our faces. Happiness is a state of mind that we all want to be in, so all that comes to our ears should be music to our ears. That music is melodious and soothing to the heart, always calming us. It gives us hope as we rejoice at the news that comes to our ears.
However, music is not always soothing to the ear. Sometimes, it can be more like hard rock, representing bad news or stressful updates that jolt us and make us uneasy. These moments could raise our heart rate, give us an ache, and even make us gulp repeatedly as we try to process what we hear.
Now, the two paragraphs above clearly show that our state of mind—whether happiness or sorrow—can depend on the news we hear. Of course, it is not just external events that shape our mood; sometimes our inner thoughts, past experiences, or even how we feel physically can influence our emotions just as much as the news we receive.
Fortunately, life is tough for all. While some people may seem to handle whatever comes their way with ease, it is important to remember that everyone is on their own journey of learning how to respond to life's challenges. Developing emotional intelligence is not instant—it is a process that everyone goes through, and that looks different for each of us. As we practice and grow, we gradually find that our responses become calmer and more measured. Over time, this growth helps us experience even the harshest news with greater peace, making all genres of music that reach our ears more soothing, like the sound of a flute.

How do they do it?
When any news comes across our ears:
  1. Pause and Reflect.
  2. Respond neutrally with the thought that sorrow and happiness are temporary.
  3. Practice Gratitude and ask the universe for guidance, especially when the news is not pleasant.
  4. You will find a solution to the agitation, and that is only possible if the mind is at rest and not cluttered.
  5. Reflect on the solution.

The art of reflection doesn’t come naturally.
We have first to embrace the art of loneliness, which is not actually being alone, but the art in which the mind and the intellect are given space to have dialogues with each other. Think of it like sitting quietly at a park bench, letting your thoughts wander without distractions from phones or conversation. This solitude gives your mind the room it needs to sort things out, just as a composer may sit alone before writing a new song. Now, while these two are busy, you, as a body, should be left alone, because it can get cumbersome if many bodies are around.


To begin practicing this, try setting aside just five minutes each day to sit quietly without any devices, simply observing your thoughts as they come and go. You might choose a peaceful spot at home or outside, close your eyes, and breathe deeply. If a thought lingers, let it move on and gently return your focus to your breath or the environment around you. It can help to keep a simple journal nearby to jot down insights that arise. Over time, this small habit will help you create the mental space needed for reflection and make the art of loneliness more natural and comforting.
Then, when any music comes to your ears, you’ll first pause and count to five before responding to it, whether it be good or bad.
This small step gives our minds a moment to process what we have heard and decide how we want to feel or respond, rather than just reacting right away.
In your life, you should hold the baton of reaction.
Do not let outside events control your reactions.
We can control our emotions in response to what comes to our ears! That will show our true emotional intelligence, rather than reacting to all that comes our way and then lamenting that life is tough! 

Mantra: Your life, Your reactions! 





Sunday, July 19, 2026

Lift yourself by yourself

 "The mind is everything. What you think, you become."— Often attributed to Buddha


We have all heard about being mindful and being alert to our thoughts. Manifestation, in this context, refers to the way our thoughts can shape our perceptions, feelings, and even the outcomes we experience. By focusing our attention and intention, we can influence our reality in subtle but powerful ways. This is why being aware of your thoughts is so important.

Observe your awareness, then take a peek at the emotions that follow. Try this: pause for one minute and simply notice what thoughts arise in your mind. Notice any emotions that come up as you observe your own thinking, without judging or trying to change them. If you want to explore further, you can also try focusing all your attention on your breath for a minute, gently bringing your mind back whenever it wanders. Or, engage your senses by noticing five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. These simple practices help ground you in the present and increase your mindfulness.
When you read exciting news, excitement will follow. But if you read sad news, anxiety will follow.
Emotions guide energy in a certain direction. Energy can feel low or high, depending on how you respond to that awareness.

Be mindful of each thought, and practice pulling yourself out of them when you notice they are not serving you. This means observing your thoughts without getting caught up in them and gently redirecting your focus to the present moment—such as your breath or physical sensations. Developing this ability helps you avoid being carried away by negative or unhelpful thinking and fosters a more balanced, calm state of mind.

When negative thoughts pull you down, simply do a physical activity like clapping your hands or laughing forcefully, even if your heart wants to cry over sorrow or loss. The ability to lift yourself up will give you the confidence to boost your emotions at any point in life, and you will not be dependent on anyone to uplift you.




Thursday, July 9, 2026

Pout, Pose, Decide





 


"This or that?" 

"Ummm" 

"Nah! My skin is not glowing today to be wearing this color." 

"Definitely not this...I seem to be having a bad hair day!" 

Mom's voice echoed from the kitchen, 'Maggie, your ride to school will be here in ten minutes!' 

'Yeah, I know, Mom,' Maggie replied with a hint of frustration and a sigh, 'I just wish I could figure out what to wear without all this stress.' 

Mom knocked gently and entered, noticing a pile of clothes on the bed as Maggie posed in front of her mirror. She gasped at the scene.

"High school can be so nerve-racking, Mom!" 

"It's your perspective, Maggs! I, too, went to school, but never gave so much importance to my appearance as your generation does! 

"You had simpler times! Now is the age of social media, so we always have to put our best foot forward!" said Maggie as she continued to pout and pose in front of her mirror in her bathrobe.

"Believe me, we had our own issues during that time!" her mom snickered as she continued to observe her 18-year-old daughter. 

Just then, they heard a honk, and Maggie quickly disrobed and slid a dress down her head, which had matching jewelry. With that, she walked out with a deep sigh. "Gosh! Life is so difficult!" she lamented as she slipped on her shoes and rushed out the door. 



Wednesday, July 8, 2026

A Candid Conversation




 “I wasn’t going to tell you this,” I said with a screech, then paused, took a deep breath, and noticed my brother eyeing me with furrowed brows and a gape, as usual.

There was silence, but not for long, as he quickly chipped in, “Go on!” he commanded. “I am listening.”
“Oh! for once you are listening, huh!” I shrieked again, hands raised, as I circled the table where he sat with his cup, holding it with both hands and rubbing it back and forth. His face was red, and his gaze was bouncing from me to the table, clearly indicating that he was controlling his anger.
That made me cautious, since his temper is like a tornado tearing through our cramped apartment, leaving splintered chairs and shattered dishes in its wake. It costs us a fortune to repair things, and I have to chip in as well, since it's an argument we're both involved in. The last one was so bad that I am still making my credit card payments, which were set up in installments.
Seeing his temperament made me very nervous, and my face turned white. My lips started trembling. Fear gripped me!
With many gulps, I said gently, my voice shaking with a mix of guilt and spite, “I wiped your toothbrush on the toilet after I could not pay my part for the repair.” I hated myself for stooping so low, but in that desperate moment, it felt like my only way to get back at him for blaming everything on me.
Patiently, I now waited for his response with a downward glance and a shrunken frame, muttering, “Que Sera Sera, whatever will be, will be!” 

Tuesday, July 7, 2026

The Park

 The park in my neighborhood has its own perks. It is not just an extended backyard for me; it is also a place to socialize amid nature.



Every evening before sunset, I tend to go for a stroll and bump into familiar faces, which has become my norm. Although we were strangers at first, we now look forward to seeing each other at our favorite spot and sharing a smile. As these gatherings have become a part of my daily routine, I’ve started to feel a comforting sense of belonging. Crossing paths with these neighbors makes the park feel warmer and fills me with hope, easing the sense of loneliness that sometimes creeps in. These meetings remind me that even in a busy world, small connections can make all the difference.
First to arrive is Marissa, a young girl who loves to sketch the trees and any activity happening around them. She sits on a particular bench and gazes at the coast live oak tree, which is home to various birds and bees and, as a result, is full of chirps that attract dogs and their owners.  
Next would be Mr. David, a retired soldier who loves to take his daily walks. His favorite spot is to sit and watch the trees and the play structure, where children hum like bees. His smile clearly indicates that he is reminiscing about his past, as do his occasional waves.
Next is me with a stroller for a 2-year-old baby. I try to get some fresh air and take my mind off the laundry, dishes, and all the chores that never seem to end. I let my baby play in the play structure while I get a breather on the bench, with constant eye contact with him.
Lastly, there would be a young, starving musician, Joe, who would strum his guitar while sitting in one of the benches facing the play structure. The soothing music would be more for people like me, Marissa, and Mr. David on the bench than for the children, who would be too busy using the slides, the swings, and the bars.
This music was the ignition for all the conversations among the four of us, where we talked about our past and our turmoil in the present as we hoped for a bright future. What began with strangers ended with a shared comfort, as the park, the music, and the setting left us with smiles and stories in the evening air before we drifted off in our directions. 

Monday, July 6, 2026

The Subway Station

 “How did you do it? Could you be honest and not beat around the bush?” I asked Lily, my face earnest and my eyes fixed on hers. She was like my younger sister, but life had thrown me a curveball, so I was focusing on myself, which made me drift away from her despite her many missed calls. But today,  I saw that bag, my concern for her grew, since trouble was her last name. By inquiring about it, I wanted to create the trust that had long been gone. We had not been in touch for months. That changed now, when she accidentally bumped into me. The bag popped open. Its contents flew all over.



Lily took a couple of deep breaths, and her eyes darted into mine as she began, “I was late for work, so I was rushing through the subway station when I tripped over a brick in the middle of the path. The whole station echoed with the rattle of trains and the hurried footsteps of commuters. The cold concrete scraped my palms as I fell, and the glare from the fluorescent lights made the bright yellow safety stripes blur before my eyes. At first, I cursed my luck because I saw my train leave the station. The screech of the doors closing mocked me as I lay there, embarrassed in front of the crowd. Then I pulled myself up and stared at the brick. Its rough, dusty surface felt gritty in my hand, and it was strangely warm from all the passing feet. People at the station asked about my welfare, and I merely nodded yes because I was not interested in small talk. I picked up the damn brick, hoping to put it aside so nobody else gets hurt. Underneath it, I found a key with a tag attached. The metal was cool and heavy in my fingers, and the curved edges pressed against my palm. The paper had clues we used to play with when egg hunting. I was amused. I had to wait fifteen minutes for my next train, so I went with the flow. The paper read, ‘keep the brick on the side where there is a wall.’ That made me walk all the way around the station to find a wall. Both sides have trains coming and going. The smell of grease and metal followed me as I moved past the vibrating tracks. I found a wall that led to a door to a room. The wall was rough, with peeling paint that dusted my knuckles as I brushed against it. As I kept the brick there, the wall read, ‘don’t be shy, enter the room,’ which I did, but with hesitation, after a couple of knocks and no answer. The door creaked open, its old hinges groaning in protest. Inside, it was dim, with the faint musty smell of forgotten things. I found a trunk with a big lock. The trunk was old, battered, and the wood felt dry and splintery under my fingers. It confused me, but then the key in my hand made me think of unlocking it. To my surprise, it did. I looked outside the room, hoping to see someone, but when I peeped out, everyone was just running about their business. I opened the trunk and found a bag with a thank-you note on it. The bag was velvet, soft and a little dusty, and inside I found these gems. They were cool and smooth, catching every bit of stray light and throwing small rainbows across my hands. Just then, I heard the announcement of the upcoming train, which happened to be mine to work. I quickly grabbed the bag and darted toward my train when I bumped into you, who, as usual, always thought of me up to some mischief.”


“Your gesture to clear the path was rewarded handsomely,” I said with enthusiasm. I helped her quickly put those precious stones back in the bag. Then we boarded the train. That train journey helped us patch up the lost time and revive our friendship. It was a win-win situation for both of us! 

Thursday, May 28, 2026

Inner Energy Management

 Energy management is the engine that powers all areas of management.

With internal energy, willpower, passion, and drive, we can build a sound foundation for success.
This energy is cultivated by focusing the mind on our objectives, not by relying on external stimulants. To strengthen our ability to focus, we can use practical techniques such as setting goals and maintaining a consistent routine. With these techniques in mind, let’s look at how we can apply them in daily practice.

For example, you might start each morning by spending a few minutes penning your goals for the day, which could be more like a to-do list to check off. Manifestation could also be possible if you take deep breaths as you write them down, visualizing how to achieve your goals for that day. My ignition, besides a cup of tea, is also listening to a pep talk. It feels like a natural stimulator. These practices help create an atmosphere that supports maintaining internal energy throughout the day.

Our mind ignites our energy. Intellect then guides our direction. Managing internal energy is essential. As we consider how to maintain our internal energy, it’s important to recognize the barriers that may arise.
However, as we move toward our goal, the engine can run out of energy as we get distracted by the many distractions around us. Recognizing distractions is key: they often show up as urges to check your phone, sudden impulses to switch tasks, or thoughts that pull your attention away from your main objective. To tackle these problems, implementing anticipatory strategies can bring about a meaningful change.
Try posting your goal sheet where you can see it, block time for focused work by turning your phone to airplane mode or disabling notifications, and close your door to eliminate physical distractions. Consistent use of these methods will help you stay on course.
When you notice your mind drifting, gently steer it back to the task. Dips in energy are common, as there are many paths to any goal.
To avoid burnout, stand up and do jumping jacks to refocus. This brings a surge of adrenaline that helps you re-engage. Listening to music for up to five minutes can also help.
Some days you may not reach your goals; remember, completing the task matters. Each attempt brings you closer than doing nothing.
It’s the walk towards your goal that matters: Step by step!
So what is the secret sauce for managing internal energy so we can ring the bell of success? Here are the key actions you can take:

- Start your day by clarifying your top priorities and outlining clear intentions.
- Practice daily, such as penning down your goals and visualizing them to keep your mind focused.
- Turn off distractions by turning off notifications and blocking time for important tasks.
- When you get off track, gently bring your attention back to your main objective, either by a physical activity or listening to your favorite tune.

Commit now to these steps. Take consistent action to energize your path, rise above obstacles, and realize your ambitions—start today and own your success.
You are the creator of your life, with power within you. Each of us can choose to make or break ourselves.
What do you choose?


Friday, April 3, 2026

Self Challenge Wins!

 







Winning over a disability

Laura's arthritis limits her physical mobility, but she diligently manages her daily chores by rising an hour earlier to prepare breakfast and pack lunches for her family. Her swollen joints make movement difficult, yet she realizes that, with time, they yield to her patience. Each day is a test, as her body presents a new obstacle every morning; sometimes her knee, hip, or shoulder demands special attention. She knows how to adapt, but requires time to train herself for each challenge. Fortunately, she gives herself the time needed to accomplish her tasks.
She waves a jubilant goodbye to her family as they go about their day. Her happiness isn’t just wishing them well, but also the thrill of conquering her morning ordeal.
She triumphed over rebellious joints that rarely cooperate with her will. She managed to prepare nutritious snacks and meals for her family.
Winning is more than a word; it is a state that brings her pride and happiness. She tries to pat herself on the back for her efforts—though even that requires effort—but she knows she has prevailed despite her physical limitations.

Winning is a desire

Lavanya, just 16, fights Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia with brave resolve. She faces countless medications meant to destroy diseased cells. Her smile lights her face and lifts her parents' spirits as they watch her endure. As the long, grueling chemotherapy comes to an end, she raises her arms in triumph.
She defeated the stubborn cells that wouldn’t divide properly.
Who could have guessed that a simple, normal life is so vital to survival? Yet she won it—breathing through treatment, expelling toxicity with steady positivity and persistent vigor.
Her victory affirms her place with family and friends who treasure her. The win is sweet, though the path was dark and lined with painful side effects. Her fierce desire to live inspires her to look forward to graduation.

Winning a competition

Leon stretches before the big game, aware of his racing thoughts. He works to steady his mind. His body responds well to the warm-up. “I will lead my team to victory!” he reminds himself, quietly. “Leon can do it!” he murmurs.
Self-encouragement lifts his spirits, like a mother’s gentle touch. When his name is called, he breathes deeply, enters the field with his cricket bat, and strides confidently to the pitch, waving to the crowd as he clears his mind of doubt.
He wants to just do it!
He aims to act decisively—swift and focused on his goal.
Within minutes, he’s in action, racking up runs with his teammate. The score climbs, and in an hour, he secures the win for his team.
Such victory, earned through effort, is sweet—the fruit of labor, called triumph.
Success may be owed to hard work, luck, or fate. Studies suggest Lady Luck can play a key part.
Lady Luck often appears when someone pursues a dream job, competes in sports, or performs on stage. Clarity, focus, confidence, and composure matter, along with skill. With so much involved, luck often becomes a deciding factor.



What does Winning mean?

The examples given above are Laura’s perseverance, Lavanya’s will to live, and Leon’s self-talk to boost his confidence.
Winning personal challenges, more than external competitions, leads to self-discovery, growth, humility, and lasting fulfillment. This process reveals true capacity and opens new opportunities for a richer life.
Victories in competition are never guaranteed. Today’s win can turn to tomorrow’s loss.
But if you keep winning personal challenges, defeat in competition won’t trouble you. Growth is so rewarding that external noise loses power, leaving you in a meditative state regardless of the chaos around you.
This winning spirit leads to true fulfillment as a human being.
Aim for the win inside yourself rather than the win outside, because that personal win will push you to go further in life, while a win in a competition will be outshined by someone else next time.

Friday, October 10, 2025

Above or at Eye Level ?


Do you prefer observing nature from above or at eye level?


Have you ever pondered the allure of viewing the world from above? 


It's the thrill of seeing every intricate detail from above, a vantage point that grants us a sense of mastery over our surroundings. When we rise above, we can deeply dissect and analyze the landscape, uncovering patterns that intrigue and engage us. The world takes on a new dimension, and we become explorers of a vast, intricate canvas. Observing from above feels like controlling everything, as if we can monitor each movement—the flutter of a leaf and the beat of a bird's wings. It also offers a bird's-eye view of every pebble scattered below, allowing us to imagine the stories behind their journeys from mountains to their current resting places. We can witness the waves crashing against the rocks, then disintegrating into the ocean as they foam and cleanse the shore. From this vantage point, we can observe a person noting how the wind plays with her hair, while also gaining insight into the condition of her hair follicles, all from our elevated perspective.


Observing the world from eye level reveals nature's beauty in amazing ways. From this viewpoint, we see vibrant flowers swaying in the breeze, their petals shining like jewels in the sunlight. We notice how sunlight filters through the leaves, creating playful shadows on the ground. The sky above is a blank canvas filled with fluffy white clouds that drift slowly, taking on shapes that spark our imagination. This view helps us appreciate the delicate dance of light and movement while showing us the unique beauty we can find at eye level. It makes us feel more connected to the natural world around us as we can even see the emotions in a human by peeking in her eyes. The bond we can form with any individual at eye level is remarkable. After all, we are inherently social creatures.

My two cents: Looking at our surroundings from above, we often miss the lively details around us. Our focus tends to stay on the ground, making it easy to overlook the beauty of life at eye level. We miss capturing the emotions and sentiments of all living creatures, which helps us connect with the world around us. 


Even if you're an introvert, observing the landscape at eye level can help you.


After all, humans are social animals, and we need to bond.


I found an article about an Italian man who spent 33 years living on an isolated island. While he was technically not alone—he occasionally interacted with tourists and took care of the island's landscape—he preferred solitude.


Being alone and being lonely are two distinct concepts. The Italian was not lonely; he preferred solitude and socializing at his own discretion, which I find commendable!


We all have tread various paths in our lives, which by now have given us an overview of what gives us happiness or what disturbs our peace.


To make a choice: labels us as an intelligent being! 





Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Why is fiction predominantly negative?


Fiction is a class of literature that comprises works of imaginative narration. It is something invented, imagined, and made up.



We all cherish fiction for how it ignites our imagination and sends shivers down our spine, especially when a character is swept away by emotions we, too, might experience. It's the joy of storytelling that we all relish.



Recently, there has been a surge of difficult-to-conceive fictional stories that stretch the limits of what we can fathom. These stories often carry a heavy dose of negativity, with elements of horror that seem illogical and unsettling, and can be pretty disturbing. This excessive negativity can linger in a person's mind, making it difficult to relax and sleep peacefully at night.



Sometimes, I wonder if humanity tests its endurance by stretching a rubber band until it loses its elasticity, leading to devastation!!



Some argue that it is just plain imagination.



Still, this artistry that overpowers one's imagination does not lift spirits; it just gives nightmares.

I also agree that after turmoil comes spring, which is beautiful. An individual tends to embrace it with self-composure and dignity since he has seen the ugly side. But why scare the wits out of a man to show him the beautiful side of this creation? We are intelligent beings who appreciate it anyway!



How about doing it subtly?



Life can often feel overwhelming, with challenges piling up like fragile eggs in a basket, each one at risk of cracking under pressure. These cracks may form from our decisions or unforeseen circumstances that life throws our way, like sudden loss in family, health issues, success in the workplace, or unexpected relationship troubles. As we navigate these difficulties, we do so with determination and hope, gently touching our fate as though we could reshape it. We cling to the belief that taking thoughtful steps can mend our broken journeys and illuminate our future with brighter possibilities.



As writers, let's strive for a more balanced approach in our fiction, eliminating the overwhelming negativity that can hinder development in all aspects. A well-rounded narrative is key to engaging and uplifting our readers so they can navigate through their ugliness with the hope that there is light at the end of their dark tunnel.


Mantra for today: Negativity of all forms shuts the door of progress.